A Guide to Being Cordial

It isn't exactly easy to be cordial. Sometimes you have to put up with behavior that isn't conducive to what you're doing. I'm pretty sure this extends to all facets of life. But for me, it's related to work. So you have to stomach it anyway.

Serving food and drinks is fairly easy. Ask if they'd like a menu, offer drinks, and remember what they say. Drink orders are simple. Unless they want something off the wall. When that happens write it down. Ask for help if necessary.

I promise this won't turn into a blog about being a server. But, it's the perfect training ground for someone that wishes to serve the Lord. Because everyday you will be called to serve people you disagree with or don't understand. In that regard this job is simple.

So often you will understand what the Lord wants. But understanding people is different. They aren't really sure what they want. Kind of like how people don't know what's in their hearts. They just default to what they know. Not what their heart wants. Sometimes it's because they want to be easy. Sometimes it's because they want to be difficult. Believe it or not, it's true.

People just want to be seen and heard. Our stories are not similar. And neither are orders. We like what we like and that's just fine. That's because as individuals we see life in colors. Not black and white. We're taught that all things are good or bad. But that isn't true. Oh, shoot! I think that is actually taboo.

Listen, ladies and gentlemen. Our temptations are different. And so are me and you. Moderation is a virtue. Look it up. You don't have to take my word for it. Moderation is a middle ground between two extremes. No offense, but so are politics. Which I could happily talk to you about after my shift has ended.

So, I guess this post is actually about virtue. Because being cordial is easy. Until you're confronted by someone with little virtue. They are far and few between, but those people really stand out. Having a lack of virtues is a confronting way to be. And it goes both ways. Sometimes you may think someone is being difficult, but really they are just being honest. And it's your job to make that situation easier to navigate. By being virtuous.

God is constantly accommodating you and me. Some churches may make it seem like He won't, or doesn't. But I promise you He does. Not because he has to either. Because he wants to. Because it doesn't matter in the long run. He has a plan, but there are diverging paths that make that plan possible. Kind of like how there are different ways to make a drink. The outcome is the same. But the ingredients aren't.

I love you, and I think the way you like your long island ice tea is kind of weird. But it's ready.